Human Design Empowers Honest Communication

How often do you tolerate boring conversations in your relationships?

If I am ever talking to you and you are bored, feel free to express this to me directly. In fact, this is my preference!

There are a handful of things I might do with this information:

I might say “thanks for letting me know!” And stop boring you. I might ask if there’s a topic you’d like to change the subject to, or pose another topic myself and see if that interests you. Or, perhaps it’s time to enjoy some silence, or acknowledge our conversation has peaked and hang up the phone, etc.

I may take your reflection in as valuable information. I consider myself a very interesting person and if someone who usually finds me interesting is feeling bored by what I’m talking about, it’s possible that this is because I’m looping on something that isn’t a healthy, constructive focus for me!

If I feel a strong desire to continue discussing/processing/proselytizing about what I was saying, I may either find someone else to talk to about it or do some journaling- or if I specifically desire your support/perspective/attention on something, I may express this to you and see if there’s a way to make the conversation feel more enjoyable and worthwhile for you.

This is just one specific example of the sort of communication I practice and value in my relationships.

One of my favorite benefits of Human Design is that it can empower us to represent ourselves more accurately and communicate more honestly.

I am not always speaking directly about HD, but my experience with this system has profoundly shaped my awareness in a way that massively impacts my communication style.

Do you crave more honesty and authenticity in your relationships? Perhaps HD could unlock new insight into how to have this.

If you’ve never had a Foundation Reading before, this is the place to start. You can book yours here !💫